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In a Friend I can see a second self


"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."- Anais Nin

Four years ago!!!.... Bangalore ...hmm....MG road, Commercial street, those steps where we sat together checking out guys..making fun...of each other....is something which I will always cherish. Was it that I liked bangalore as a city or I liked bangalore because of my friends and my loved ones...??When I think of bangalore, I remember my friends. If I remember of any place in Bangalore I remember the fun I had at that place with them.Life was so beautiful and sweet to me!!

We've gone our own ways and I know its for the best, but sometimes I wonder will I ever have a friend like you again?" -Blink 182

Now, I am in a completely different city far away from India in Ottawa, Canada. This city is really beautiful and awesome compared to bangalore. But no friends, with whom I can have fun, hang out and sit on the steps to check out guys.... ;)
What am I going to do here...was such a big question for me when I landed up here. I was so skeptic about everything and questions on questions were coming out. It was just because, the feeling of insecurity was suppressing my other emotions and was this all because there were no friends?? Oh yes!!! definitely....This made me realize with friends you can be yourself with no worries and tensions...!!


During my first month in Ottawa I remember walking on the Rideau street which I found to be the most beautiful part of this city. Wherever I looked around I found that I don't know anybody and I felt like where have I landed up?? It gave me such a miserable feeling...I could see people with friends and laughing together having fun....well I could sense I was feeling big time jealous...!! That joy of sharing happiness, excitement, love was almost null for me.Nobody was there to whom I could tell my simple thoughts like , "hey...this is so nice!!! , Oh! I love it!! "

“If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he will soon find himself alone. A man should keep his friendships in constant repair.” ~Samuel Johnson

I have been here for four months now. They say that God is watching upon you all the time...and whola....I met couple of good friends. They made this city more beautiful for me and which I will always cherish and that joy of sharing feelings, emotions and love is infinite!!! :)

Today after a long time I went on the same street again but this time with my friends and that road with beautiful buildings, decorations were looking more beautiful than before. Everything was looking so new and this was just because there was a sharing of feelings, emotions and love...and above all the feeling of security.

This made me realize that friends are the most wonderful treasure anybody can have..I do have a small world which consist of my friends which I treasure them and with whom I can be myself without fear for anything..

This is just a toast for all my friends and to let you all know that I really love you and always will cherish these beautiful bonds we share…

"I think about you all the time, but I don't need the same."- Goo Goo Dolls



Comments

Unknown said…
hey manc,it's great taking walk down the memory lane :). miss u a lot dear.Kudos!!! for gr8 effort.
Anonymous said…
"Friend I want to be your reflection" Whenever I think of you these words keep ringing in my ears!!
Unknown said…
Some luck lies in not getting what you thought you wanted but getting what you have, which once you have got it you may be smart enough to see is what you would have wanted had you known

Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet
when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly

We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.

If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere.
Unknown said…
hummm gettin nostalgic manseee ji.....gud peice of writing....moved by it......well wat do i say after reading tht....all i can say/....."lage raho mansee ji"...
he he he ...have fun
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Unknown said…
Hey manse, sorry for getting late ... To find time for myself is getting a luxury.
Instead of sinking into a glob of emotions, I just wanted to congratulate you for this fantastic opening.
Very well done. Good projection.
Keep it up.
Unknown said…
Wherever I looked around I found that I don't anybody and I felt like where have I landed up?? ....

Something is unusual in this line. Pls check it again.
Adi said…
I told you before, i will post it here again... This was like reading something i had written myself... Well, most of it anyway!! Thats how much i could relate to it... No matter where a person goes, no matter what phase of life he/she is in, the quest for people never ceases... For life is empty and devoid of joy or purpose without them.... You have been such a good writer Mansee, dont stop here, keep going... Take care
Anchal Gupta said…
gud one mansee...shows how important ur frnds r to u ... n I'm glad to think that I am one among them(hope so )....u make me remember few lines of poem that I had once read ....part of that is :
"frienship grows out of chance...
meeting a mere glance ,& then a smile ....
& touches heart in more ways than one !
Isn't it great how we have grown...
from being a perfect stranger to who we're today............."
Unknown said…
"Every new beginning is some beginning's end" - Bon Jovi (from the song Welcome to wherever u r, album Have a nice day)
well it reflects most of our thoughts and feelings... what most of us have felt as we move on in life leaving the past behind and carrying ahead with memories...
Deepti said…
hey manc...a beautiful one!!tells how much things change wit time..still some things remain as they r..n tats frenz..
great to learn tat u r adapting to d new environment there n found nice ppl there!!!
something tat all of us can relate to 'cos tats pretty much d same wat all of us r going thru here too,whether v r in d same city or a diff one...
LOU U lots dear....keep smiling.. :)
keep up d writing n hope to read many more ones from u!!!
Hey Mansee. the moment i read these words over here. i went back to the very first day i came. and everything seems to be so true.. thats the beuty of writing. its just not the words, but the way you have expressed them is like anyone can get into your shoe and feel your senses. and me specially. i feel like spilling the words straight from ur heart.
thanks for let the ppl know that frenship is a paramount relation as u feel..
Your quote work is simply adding beauty in your few moments cpatured for life time.
so we are Good to go for furter more.. bravo.
Atul Manchanda said…
it feels so nice to read that somebody gives so much importance to friendship in today's world. i can imagine what u wud have gone thru wen u 1st landed in canada.. but sounds great tat u r having a good time there n u still cherish ur old fun filled days..
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Mansee said…
Thank you !!! :)
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